Neither of you refers to the relationship as "dating," "exclusive," or uses terms like "boyfriend" or "girlfriend."
You have periods of intense interaction followed by long stretches of minimal or no communication.
Conversations about the future are vague or nonexistent, and plans are often made last-minute.
One or both of you avoids deeper conversations about feelings, commitment, or personal challenges.
The connection feels more physical than emotional or intellectual, and intimacy is often the main focus.
You’re unsure about how to introduce each other to friends or family, and the relationship feels ambiguous.
They might share just enough to keep you interested but hold back on vulnerability or meaningful details.
If you're frequently wondering, "What are we?" and the answer is unclear or avoided, it’s a strong indicator.